As an African American male growing up in Detroit Michigan; racism, discrimination, privilege, prejudice, and the systems by which the American people live by does not surprise me anymore. As a matter of fact I find it quite puzzling how people can be surprised that such things still exist. In one article that we read this past week a student said “Racism, does that still exist?” and after reading that quote I thought to myself: Wow! People are only attentive to what is going on in their individual lives that they are oblivious to what is going on in society, however, can they be blamed? When you live in a social environment away from discrimination and away from prejudice because your community is so polarized, i.e. either massively white, massively rich, or massively ignorant, a person is not aware that other lifestyles exist; mainly due to the fact they never had to care about the other lifestyles. Throughout my life and my family’s life we have and encountered and endured all of such discrimination but depending on how life served us our lemons differentiated how we lived our lives.
In my family history paper I learned that certain members of my family was unable to continue their high school careers, begin a college expedition, as well as they were unable to receive high profiled careers because certain things in life prevented them from doing so. My family is not wealthy and like most other black families in my community we work day to day to make ends meet. While discussing the topic of racial privilege a lot of Caucasian in the articles we read felt that it is the black communities own fault for their continuous downfall and if they attempted to get a college education and tried harder in school than they too could have economic and social successes. What my white counterparts fail to realize, however, is the fact that they have three hundred plus years of privilege and the black community is trying to catch up. America declared their independence from Great Britain in 1776 but it wasn’t until 1954 that the black community was allowed to receive integrated education, i.e. the supposedly same education as the white community because the segregated schools was indeed insufficiently teaching the black students, but even with the integrated schools in today’s society an inner city black student is not nearly receiving as close to a good education as a suburban white student. Due to inner city schools lack of funding and poverty-stricken citizens the option of receiving top notch education is not affordable and therefore not existent. Majority of the black community lives in these impoverished areas and although school is important survival is most important and in order to eat, have shelter, and common necessities such as water and electricity, money is required, so instead of being able to go to school and get an education these inhabitants stay in their area to work a minimum wage job to ensure that these common necessities is acquired. I am aware and understand that people should try to get an education especially since more opportunities are available to us now than they were in the early 1900’s but due to the fact that the black community have been oppressed for hundreds of years and only been treated as equals by law for a little over forty years a lot of people in the black community cannot afford to take such opportunities because we have to settle a debt from hundreds of years of oppression.
It is so puzzling as to why people can’t see that they have privilege or that they
indirectly do racist things, even if they are not a racist. As an African American male I know that I have privileges that other people don’t have. I know that I can walk alone on a dark street at night without fear of someone sexually assaulting me as a woman does not have such privilege. Whether she is black or white, women as a whole do have to worry about such occurrences and take precautions to prevent sexual assaults from happening. I know that I have the privilege of receiving a free education until my college career as an American citizen yet the children of Argentina have to pay to receive good schooling and children of Uganda receive insufficient schooling if any at all. I am aware of my privilege as a heterosexual male, I know that I can show affection publicly or go to city hall in any state and get married while a homosexual couple may have fear to show public affection and are denied the rights in a lot of states to get married at all. Even with all of my disadvantages I am still aware that I have privileges and although I have not been appreciative of these privileges my whole life I know that if I have these privileges people opposite of me have the drawback. Although me acknowledging my privilege and their disadvantage does nothing to help the problem of social injustice in the world; allowing injustice to occur and do nothing about it is just as wrong as being a part of the social injustice. As people with privilege we have to stand up for the underprivileged and speak with them about the injustices, because it is more likely that privilege people listen to each other as they would listen to an underprivileged talk of how unfair they are being treated by the privilege.
All in all White America need to speak to each other and discuss how they do have privileges and ways to fix the injustice that occurs. They should discuss how they are able to go into a convenient store and not have to have the cashier hover over them to make sure they don’t steal anything, they should discuss how it is easier for them to get job opportunities and loan approvals, as they also should discuss why it is they are less likely to get arrested, convicted, or serve prison time regardless of the crime and its circumstance. I am proud of my race and the obstacles we have to overcome but I want to be seen as more than a professional basketball or football player as I want to be looked at upon as an equal. Law requires people to give me opportunity but I want opportunity because I deserve it and my fellow peers know that I deserve it. My race and age has caused me many obstacles in my life and even though society tend to say they are colorblind, in one some aspect of my life everybody tend to stereotype something about me because I am black as they don’t take me serious because I am young.
Being African American has its trials and tribulations as well as it has it glories and celebrations and I wouldn’t trade it for the world. Unlike the obstacles my family had to go through there is a lot less blatant racial activities occurring as well as a lot more diversity accepting people in America today. For the stereotypes I do receive from people inadvertently prejudging me and the racist comment I may hear from those who are not ready to accept the changing path America is undergoing gives me ambition and drive to do better and go further. I want to make my family proud but more than ever I want to prove everybody who doubted that I would succeed wrong. My motto: In all life’s aspect I am great…expect NOTHING less.
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With his comment about he is surprised people don't think racism exists, I do believe it still does exist because I have saw people call people names and won't hang out with them just because they are from a different race. People today still treat people of a different race horrible, and I don't understand why because we are all the same on the inside just because they are a different color on the outside doesn't mean we should treat them any differently. I had an African American roommate in the dorms my freshman year of college and she is still one of my good friends that I talk to almost everyday. Even though I came from a High School of all white Caucasian people I wasn't going to judge her any differently, I came to accept her and she accepted me for who I was.
ReplyDeleteFirst off, I would like to comment on the length of this blog. Not only is it plentiful in words, the meaning of the words are also strong. I was very impressed by the quality of the writing, and this being the first time I have ever commented on your blog, I have nothing to compare it to. I am sure all of it is the same quality. I would also like to agree with your point about some people being blind to the racism around them. Although I have not experienced a lot of racism on my behalf, I have seen African American friends suffer from it. I just do not know how people could be so blind to something, as you said it, so 'blatant' in society.
ReplyDeleteI enjoyed reading your blog partly because you bring another side to the discussion. You have unfortunately had to face the discrimination that we have been reading about this week so for you the readings were not challenging but fact. I have assumed at times in my past that certain races have not received the advantages they wanted because they have not worked hard enough. I was wrong and willingly admit that I was ignorant about much of the information we have learned over the last six weeks. As you said some of us grow up in "polarized communities" where we are not affected by the discrimination going on around us therefore we don't think about it and put no effort into learning about it. I can only say that I plan on taking what I have learned in this class and from my fellow classmates and start making changes in my own life. I will now notice my advantages and be willing to question them.
ReplyDeleteQuite a post and well done, as there are many great ideas and a sense of power within those words. It is a change to see things from your perspective and I agree that society needs to become more aware of the structural racism, not only to discuss it, but to eliminate the inequities of the citizens of color and give them the same benefits that any and all Americans deserve. You also illustrated many different factors that can cause privilege and disadvantage, as well as their effects. I wish all of us here today good luck and good faith in making a better future for each other and our generations to come.
ReplyDeleteLoved your blog!! Truly powerful! It was great to get another perspective on our topics of racism. I liked how you pointed out that African Americans have only been treated as equals by law for little over 40 years. I have never really thought of it that way. American society and government has come a long way but we have a long way to go. The first step to positive racial change is the obvious with our first black President. Your comment on education in poverty stricken inner city schools made me realize that this is definitely a true concern but why? Why can’t our inner city schools get equal funding as our suburban schools? I know the obvious answer is TAXES and such but it just doesn’t seem right!! OK your blog has really gotten me fired up about many current issues that are still very real. We all need to use our voice as educated American citizens and fight for these issues…
ReplyDeleteI was wanting to read someone other than a white persons blog because I realize that they would have a different way of life than a white person. I really found your blog amazing because you gave so many ways that you showed that racism happens today. From being arrested or expected of stealing would be a different life than what I am accustom to. Where I live state highway patrol try to find people speeding because our cops do not care about that as much because they know what the value of money is to people in our community. I do feel grateful to live in a time where racism is not as strong as it was in our grandparents day. But you are right there is still racism in society today and there will be for many years because people are conservative and stick in particular groups.
ReplyDeleteI really enjoyed your blog and after reading all of yours these past few weeks believe this one stands above all the rest. You have put a great deal of emotion and thought into it and it really shows.
ReplyDeleteYou and I had very different lives growing up. But your post does a great job of portraying some interesting events as an African American teen in present day America.
I really liked your blog and completely agree that people today are completely blind and oblivious to racism that goes on all around them and honestly i think its sad. I have also experienced blunt racism being a white girl who has had relationships with those of other races. At fist i was completely surprised the comments people had the nerve to make as we walked by, its just infuriating. Now, this is just something i am used to, which is pretty sad. Racism is not something that we should get used to and move on, its something that needs to change.
ReplyDeletei truly enjoyed reading your blog post! very well done! and i have to admit that i also am from a very polarized community and did not realize that racism was still going on. i am sad that this happened to you and everyone else. i agree with michelle and think that this really needs to change and people need to take action once again. this class has taught me so much and i know that i have changed from it, becuase i have more of an open mind and know more about what is going on.
ReplyDeleteMichelle interacial dating is tough and may be worst than individual racism because you are being hated because you have an attraction and an emotional bond to someone who is different. Similar to what homosexual couples are going through. Why is it that we frown upon interacial dating? What makes it so taboo? I believe people believe culture shouldnt intermix because they are scared of what an intermix offspring would have to go through but mainly due to ignorance. People need to experience the trouble that other people go through in order for racism to end because obviously preaching and teaching about it isn't happening, it's 2009 and people are still being harrassed for interacial dating, although thats progress, its a slow progress.
ReplyDeleteWow, I really am impressed with your blog post. I agree that people are blind and oblivious to racism. College really opened my eyes up to how racist some people could be. My floor this past year was awful in regards to racial comments. It is horrible how rude some people can be. Racism really needs to end it is sad that it is still occuring.
ReplyDeleteI think your blog brings a lot of issues at light that I would have never even considered. You're absolutely right when you make the remark about communities being polarized (aka massively white, etc) and for you to share your experiences with racism was very enlightening to me. Interracial dating is still so uncommon, and I think that there is a lot to be learned from couples who make that sort of commitment--you learn about the trials and struggles from both cultures. Great job and thanks for being such a viable part of this class!
ReplyDeleteI could not help but comment myself just because I was so interested right from the beginning about how all of these issues affected yourself and your family and after reading everything, I now have a better understanding from another point of view. Overall, I love the way you argued and discussed your points without "attacking" any side because it honeslty shows how much of a mature individual you are and I respect that. I also enjoy the way you held yourself in this post and I really agree with the fact that White America does need to discuss the priveledges we have rather than ignoring it and putting our own blame on someone else.
ReplyDeleteOverall, I really enjoyed reading this blog post and felt you did an outstanding job with it.
I think many people fail to realize that racism is not race specific. It happens all over the world, by all races and to all races. If you look at the definition of racism it confirms my last sentence. Within the United States we see that when racism is discussed it tends to be white discriminating black or white discriminating brown and so on. It is not discussed very often that racism between different minority groups is present and that even white people can be discriminated against. I can understand the resentment toward white people within the United States because of their past treatment of minorities but I don't see how you can lump all white people into that category of racist. Someone in this class wrote that "white people do racist things even if they are not racist". I'm not sure if I understand that statement but it sounds to me that you are saying that all people are racist. Bonilla-Silva states about “whites justify keeping minorities out of the good things in life with the language of liberalism”. To me this seems to say instead of a two way conversation about racism it can only be one way, and that way is for white people shut up. No matter what I say in this class its going to be considered language of liberalism. I'm not trying to down play the struggle of minorities in the United States by any means but I see to often that people in this class stereotype white people as all middle to upper class who all live in the suburbs who attend 5 star schools. This just isn't the case. Do you think small country schools receive tons of money. Teacher layoffs, cancellation of sports and other extra curricular activities, the use of out dated text books and poor funding happen to those schools too. One school in my county has to combine grades when they teach because they don't have enough funding to hire another teacher. How good of an education can you get from that? All over the United States we see this trend regardless of where you live. By making that statement does it mean that I'm using the "language of Liberalism"? In my opinion no. If you dig a little deeper you might see that there are other people who struggle to get good education, gain good jobs and be successful. I'm proud of who I am and I'm not going to feel guilty or apologize for being white or being a man. I know what I stand for and what my beliefs are and just because of my skin color is white does not make me a racist! Racism and discrimination are horrible things that any race in the world is susceptible to and that is pretty much my main point of this post.
ReplyDeleteIt's really meaningful to me that you brought to light the disadvantages you, your family, and even community have faced just because of your skin color. We have all gone through this class, and we have all tried our best to understand everything to the highest of our ability. But you writing this post has made the entire course more real. You are alive, living in present day, and going through some of the challenges we've discussed in class. Hearing from you and reading this post was something of importance to me, because it gave us a perspective and feeling that we couldn't have gotten from reading literature from x amount of years ago. Thanks!
ReplyDeleteI agree 100 percent that I can not believe people think racism does not exist anymore. Racism will never truely be gone I don't think. It is a part of life even though I don't like it, but there is nothing I can do about it. I can personally never be racist, but I can not speak for everyone in this world. racism is something that needs centuries to overcome and lose.
ReplyDeleteSomething I noticed during my time up in Bowling Green was what seemed to be racial extremism. Either people were extremely sensitive to racism and careful not to offend anyone, or they were blatantly racist. Coming from Columbus, Ohio, this seemed like an alien concept to me. I had always been taught racial indifference. In that I was taught not to care about someone's race for any reason. As such, I noticed very little racial tension in my diverse home town.
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